i need to be...?

i need to be serious wit life...
there are so many road to choose
but which one shud i take ??
im clueless...

i need to take small steps at a time to reach the point i wish to...
i want a..
perfect family
...with kids
and a loving monster
stable career....*suit my personality*
and earn $$$$(financial freedom)

a banker???
finance consultant?
accountant??
admin??
business???

hmmm...????so many question in my head???